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Ratched RN: I am a douche.

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I am going to come out and say this deep thought I just had.

I am not perfect. I am far from it. This day a year ago I was fresh off of orientation as a new nurse. Looking back, I knew NOTHING. The amount of stuff I learned in a year BLOWS MY MIND. You know what happened in that year? I got good…

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The troubling viral trend of the “hilarious” Black poor person
May 7, 2013

Charles Ramsey, the man who helped rescue three Cleveland women presumed dead after going missing a decade ago, has become an instant Internet meme. It’s hardly surprising—the interviews he gave yesterday provide plenty of fodder for a viral video, including memorable soundbites (“I was eatin’ my McDonald’s”) and lots of enthusiastic gestures. But as Miles Klee and Connor Simpson have noted, Ramsey’s heroism is quickly being overshadowed by the public’s desire to laugh at and autotune his story, and that’s a shame. Ramsey has become the latest in a fairly recent trend of “hilarious” black neighbors, unwitting Internet celebrities whose appeal seems rooted in a “colorful” style that is always immediately recognizable as poor or working-class.

Before Ramsey, there was Antoine Dodson, who saved his younger sister from an intruder, only to wind up famous for his flamboyant recounting of the story to a reporter. Since Dodson’s rise to fame, there have been others: Sweet Brown, a woman who barely escaped her apartment complex during a fire last year, and Michelle Clarke, who couldn’t fathom the hailstorm that rained down in her hometown of Houston, and in turn became “the next Sweet Brown.”

Granted, the buzzworthy tactic of reporters interviewing the most loquacious witnesses to a crime or other event is nothing new, and YouTube has countless examples of people of all ethnicities saying ridiculous things. One woman, for instance, saw fit to casually mention her breasts while discussing a local accident, while another man described a car crash with theatrical flair. Earlier this year, a “hatchet-wielding hitchhiker” named Kai matched Dodson’s fame with his astonishing account of rescuing a woman from a racist attacker. But none of those people have been subjected to quite the same level of derisive memeification as Brown, Clark, and now, perhaps, Ramsey—the inescapable echoes of “Hide yo’ kids, hide yo’ wife!” and “Kabooyaw,” the tens of millions of YouTube hits and cameos in other viral videos, even commercials.

It’s difficult to watch these videos and not sense that their popularity has something to do with a persistent, if unconscious, desire to see black people perform. Even before the genuinely heroic Ramsey came along, some viewers had expressed concern that the laughter directed at people like Sweet Brown plays into the most basic stereotyping of blacks as simple-minded ramblers living in the “ghetto,” socially out of step with the rest of educated America. Black or white, seeing Clark and Dodson merely as funny instances of random poor people talking nonsense is disrespectful at best. And shushing away the question of race seems like wishful thinking.

Ramsey is particularly striking in this regard, since, for a moment at least, he put the issue of race front and center himself. Describing the rescue of Amanda Berry and her fellow captives, he says, “I knew something was wrong when a little pretty white girl ran into a black man’s arms. Something is wrong here. Dead giveaway!”

The candid statement seems to catch the reporter off guard; he ends the interview shortly afterward. And it’s notable that among the many memorable things Ramsey said on camera, this one has gotten less meme-attention than most. Those who are simply having fun with the footage of Ramsey might pause for a second to actually listen to the man. He clearly knows a thing or two about the way racism prevents us from seeing each other as people.

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Now that you know this is a thing, please stop sharing these memes. Poor Black people speaking candidly about various serious incidents isn’t a hilarious joke.

^Valid point

Some people take things way too seriously. It’s ok to have a laugh when someone is playing up the camera and having fun.

I’m very happy that Ramsey was brave and helped those women get out of the house and call for help. I think his story is remarkable in many ways. The interview he gave was captivating, which is why it went viral.

The danger of this video is apparent, which is why we’re discussing it: racism. Ramsey is not just another poor black interviewee on a local news station, though he may fit that profile. The problem is that there is a profile. The problem is grouping all by one standard (also known as stereotyping). We are all different human beings and deserve to be treated as such. George Clooney, Will Ferrell, Tina Fey, Denzel Washington, Barack Obama are no more valuable than Ramsey, Brown, Dodson, or anyone else who got less attention, so don’t make it that way. Racism should be put down on the close person to person level. We should encourage each other to talk about it and put down racism rather than publishing that some people think “stereotype.” Intentional or not, that’s pushing those racist stereotypes into people’s heads and giving them more fuel.

The man was heroic. The man is a good story teller. Let him have his fame, but don’t judge him or anyone else by his standard. His story has nothing to do with his race or financial income. Don’t devalue his courage or charm by adding in other factors.

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Theirs is not to make reply,
Theirs is not to reason why,
Theirs is but to do and die
Alfred, Lord Tennyson
“Charge of the Light Brigade”

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Not the wurst decision

So I’m sitting at Max and Erma’s with my beautiful girlfriend, Erin- goodhumorgirl.tumblr.com, and I’m eating this bratwurst burger with sauerkraut and Dijon mustard and drinking Guinness. I’m not regretting the sandwich yet, but right now, I am really happy :)

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Courage is not the absence of fear, but rather the judgement that something else is more important.
Ambrose Redmoon